…doesn’t know how to communicate, have an open mind, or open heart.
Name & details marked out to protect her honor. Trying to be observant, not an a*****e.
There is a 12-year difference between us.





An hour+ later… crickets.
Let’s be honest: she wasn’t bringing much when she was responding.
Maybe she’s gone to lunch?
Maybe she’s got busy at work?
Maybe she hates me?
Maybe she’s uncomfortable with the idea I offered my number?
Maybe she’s uncomfortable with me asking her if these photos were current?
Maybe she’s uncomfortable with the idea of me being what she’s looking for, and she’s freaking out inside?
Maybe her phone died?
Maybe she doesn’t know how to respond?
Maybe she was kidnapped, abducted, & is currently in a trunk, bound & gagged, & doesn’t have a means of getting back to her phone in a timely fashion, & I’m going to get police officers at my door in the next 24-48 hours to ask about how I know her?
Maybe she just lost interest & has ghosted me?
Someone claiming to be all about communication & open hearts & minds sure doesn’t know how to communicate.
They say we look for what we wish we could be in a partner, so…
By that logic, I want a pretty face, intelligence & social skills.
But I digress.






